“How I Work With You”

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 I’m not here to hand you platitudes or make you “think positive.”
I’m here to help you reclaim your body, your relationships, and your self-worth after life has tried to shut you down.

If you’ve been through betrayal, abandonment, silence from someone you love, trauma that still echoes in your nervous system — you already know the cost of pretending you’re fine. I know it too. And I know you’re capable of more than just surviving.

We’ll work together to build connection, safety, and desire — without the shame, pressure, or performance. This is about coming home to yourself and creating relationships that feel like freedom, not fear.

I’m not the coach who smiles politely while you talk in circles.
I will see your patterns, name them, and stand with you as you break them.

• Body-First – We start where the truth lives: your nervous system. No more overriding what your body is screaming to tell you.
   
• Trauma-Informed – We unpack the past without letting it run your present. No spiritual bypassing, no “just get over it.”
   
• Grief-Honest – You get to feel what you’ve lost, even if they’re still alive. Especially if they’re still alive.
   
• Shame-Free Zone – You can bring the messy, the weird, the parts you’ve hidden from everyone. I’ve been there. Nothing shocks me.
   
• No-Nonsense Real – I’ll challenge your stories and the lies you’ve been told about love, sex, and worth. No more living small.
   

This is what people come to me for:

Body & Pleasure

• Reclaim desire after trauma, grief, medication, or major life changes.
   
• Navigate sexual challenges without shame or gaslighting.
   
• Heal body image wounds that keep you hiding.
   
• Learn that intimacy at every age is your birthright.
   

Relationships & Connection

• Rebuild trust after betrayal or trauma.
   
• Design relationships that fit YOUR life, not society’s mold.
   
• Date authentically, even with disability, mental health struggles, or non-traditional paths.
   
• Heal patterns so you can love deeply without fear.
   

Trauma & Grief Integration

• Move past “fine” into something real.
   
• Trust your body’s wisdom again.
   
• Create relationships that feel safe and electric.
   
• Work with all identities, orientations, and relationship styles — especially those told they were “too much” or “not enough.”